Wanda
Baylis is a single mom to adopted son, James, 18; a step mom,
grandmother and a foster mother. She sings with the choir at
Progressive Baptist Church, is president of Sigma Gamma Rho’s Philo
Club chapter and is a maintenance administrator at AT&T. But
beyond all that, the Glendale resident has a story to tell that is
both incredible and heartbreaking.
Her doctor made the incisions required to perform the Caesarian
section that would remove the baby from her womb. As she anxiously
waited to see her child for the first time, Wanda Baylis heard the
doctor call out in an incredulous voice, "Where’s the
baby?"
"What do you mean, ‘Where’s the baby?’" Baylis
recalls asking.
"Don’t worry," she was assured, "it’ll be all
right."
Baylis knew she was pregnant. Her doctors had confirmed that, and
she’d heard her baby’s heartbeat on the fetal monitor. Now she was
being told the baby was missing?
Her pregnancy had not been routine. That she knew. But, neither
Baylis nor her doctors understood precisely how out of the ordinary it
was. The Glendale resident, who was living in Hartford, Conn., when
pregnant in 1986, had felt no movement from her child. But that fact
was explained away as being a side effect of the serious auto accident
in which she was involved in November 1986. She was admitted to the
hospital for observation in December and that’s when she heard the
baby’s heartbeat.
However, the scan was unable to visually locate the baby. It was
suspected that uterine fibroids were blocking the view. While it was
not a common situation, the medical staff didn’t seem to be overly
concerned.
Numerous other tests were conducted, including more than 50
ultrasounds. Baylis says that only one technician was continually
successful in finding the heartbeat, which was always located very low
in her body.
Baylis’ current health care provider, registered nurse Julie
Parve, a family nurse practitioner with the Medical College of
Wisconsin, has compiled two massive binders of medical records for
both Baylis and her baby daughter. She has helped Baylis sort through
and understand what happened all those years ago.
Parve says that it must be remembered that this extraordinary
pregnancy occurred 20 years ago and medical technology was nowhere
near as advanced as it is today. Three-dimensional images were
virtually nonexistent. Doctors were basing Baylis’ care protocol on
the information that was available to them.
Baylis was told to be prepared to deliver a small baby, perhaps
only 1 or 2 pounds, since it appeared that the fibroids were taking up
so much space in her womb.
Parve says medical records indicate the placenta attached near the
uterus. "The baby actually was behind and to the side of her
uterus, so that is why they thought they could see it ‘in’ her
uterus."
As the pregnancy progressed, Baylis never experienced any sort of
labor pains or other "normal" things she’d heard about.
She was continually monitored and hospitalized for stretches to keep
tabs on her and the baby. During the observation, it was noted that
the fluid in her amniotic sac was decreasing. There was concern that
the baby could be in jeopardy.
"They felt like they needed to deliver the baby soon,"
she says. "So a date of the 25th of March was set."
Medical personnel suspected the baby was breech, so they postponed
the delivery until the next day hoping they could get the baby to
turn.
It was on March 26, 1987 that Baylis heard those words from her
doctor that caused chills … "Where’s the baby?"
Parve, who has digested all the records and commentary, says she
cannot even imagine the shock that must have reverberated through the
operating room that day. "If you were prepared for it, that would
be one thing. But they were not ready for this.
"I worked in the operating room for 16 years and assisted in
many C-sections, so I really can relate to how shocked they must have
been when they couldn’t find the baby," she says.
The situation became a medical crisis. Baylis was losing massive
amounts of blood. Her abdominal cavity had to be packed with surgical
sponges in an effort to staunch the bleeding.
Parve notes, "Wanda’s story is definitely a miracle. She
lost so much blood during that C-section, I don’t know how she
survived."
A specialist was rushed from New York City to Hartford to attend to
Baylis and the baby that was in her abdominal cavity. Alexis Lynn
Nicole Baylis, lovingly called Nikki by her mother, though 17 inches
long weighed just 3 pounds, 17 ounces.
The situation was precarious. Family members were called since it
was not known how long — or if — the two would survive.
The baby was whisked off to the intensive care unit. She had spent
the entire seven-month gestational period laying on her right side.
Parve says Nikki was in a sac of amniotic fluid, but the placenta was
not of the quality to support a healthy infant.
Somehow, Nikki had ended up in Baylis’ rib cage.
"Everything on the right side of her body was deformed and
crushed," her mother says.
Parve explains that Nikki had no protection from her mother’s
uterus and as her bones developed they were molded into place.
The baby is one of very few on record to survive an abdominal
pregnancy and be born alive. Thus the prognosis for her survival was
uncertain.
As for Baylis’ care, doctors were also learning as they went
along, trying to figure out the best possible scenarios to keep her
alive. The mortality rate for mothers experiencing undetected
abdominal or ectopic (a fertilized egg implants outside the uterus,
usually in the fallopian tubes) pregnancies is high. One of the
primary obstacles is the adhesion of the gestational sac to the
abdominal wall.
If the afterbirth is attached to the body, removing it means
severing multiple arteries and there is risk of the mother bleeding to
death. Mortality of mothers is often as high as 20 percent since
physicians are not prepared for the excessive blood loss that
frequently occurs.
Parve says the medical records indicate that Baylis’ placenta was
attached to her organs and, if removed, the woman would have bled to
death.
"Usually, when the pregnancy is in the uterus, the placenta
peels off nicely," she says. "But it has little feet, sort
of like vines that climb houses, that attach it to organs when outside
the uterus and then it pulls everything to which it is connected with
it when it is removed."
It was determined that the placenta should remain in Baylis’
body, with the thought that it would be reabsorbed. However, there was
little on record about this protocol and what might happen to the
woman was yet another unknown. There was a possibility that the
substance could poison Baylis’ body.
Parve says Baylis’ placenta was either reabsorbed or her body
developed a "wall" around it, which might have prevented it
from being toxic to her body.
"Wanda’s whole story is a miracle," Parve says.
"There’s just no other explanation."
While both mother and child were in the hospital, Baylis wanted to
do everything in her power to bond with her infant, despite both
having serious health constraints.
"It was a big project for me to get to the nursery since I was
very sick myself," she explains, "but I wanted to try to be
there to take care of my child … I went and helped with her physical
therapy every day."
The two did bond. In fact, at one point, Baylis was asked to stay
away because her presence excited little Nikki too much and put a
strain on her under-developed heart.
The tiny baby had three major surgeries and battled the odds every
day. Her right lung had collapsed and her left lung was damaged.
"She was a fighter," her mom says with a smile. "She
should never have been born, but here she was. She even had all of her
parts, including six fingers on her left hand just like her dad."
At first, Baylis was angry, but she came to believe that her little
girl was a gift from God and she has no regrets. "I had always
wanted to have a child," she explains, "and he gave me one
… He gave me her and he doesn’t make mistakes."
Nikki gave it her best fight, but after 7 1/2 weeks, the physical
ailments were just too numerous to overcome. On her last day, Nikki
was smiling and laughing with her nurses.
After losing her daughter, Baylis cried all the tears that she’d
been holding in for all that time. "I had never cried because I
felt that if I cried God would take her from me."
Baylis’ recuperation was lengthy. In fact, her health is still
compromised from her pregnancy with Nikki.
Baylis had been encouraged to tell her daughter’s story. But, she
personally wasn’t ready, and she had another consideration — her
adopted son, James. Now that the young man is 18 years old and an
adult, his mother feels that she can share Nikki’s story with the
world and not compromise James’ privacy.
So she is in the process of finding a publisher for her memoir that
has the working title of "Once Upon a Miracle Little Girl."
Parve says while writing her book Baylis has basically relived that
intense period of her life in its entirety. "Wanda’s been
through a lot. Reliving all of this was very emotional for her."
But Baylis is glad that she will have the opportunity to tell the
story of her little miracle girl and share the lesson she learned:
"Never think something is not possible." She also hopes that
the story will perhaps give other parents hope.
"Nikki’s story will give you goose bumps and make you
cry," Baylis says. "You might think her life was over 20
years ago, but this is really just the beginning."