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Kid stuff
From the common to the complicated, pediatric experts share tips on raising healthy and happy children

By JOANN PETASCHNICK

April 2008

Antibiotic alert

Most infants and young children will develop an average of three respiratory infections each year, studies show. Some infections are the result of viruses and will go away on their own, but others are caused by bacteria and require antibiotics. The difference isn’t always obvious and, in some cases, antibiotics are prescribed when they aren’t needed, says Dr. Karen Jacobson, a pediatrician with Aurora Advanced Healthcare in Menomonee Falls.

"We want to be aggressive in treating things like ear infections and upper respiratory infections," Jacobson explains. The problem is, antibiotics are only effective against illnesses caused by bacteria, not those caused by viruses, she says.

"Overuse of antibiotics has created some resistant strains of bacteria," Jacobson says. These bacteria have produced a generation of stronger, more resistant "bugs" or infections. Consequently, some infectious diseases are no longer responding to antibiotics unless a higher amount of the drug is used, she says.

Oftentimes, parents will demand antibiotics for their children, assuming that they are necessary because they may have been effective for another illness. "They need the kids to get back to school so they can resume their routine," Jacobson says. "What they don’t understand is that antibiotics won’t cure a virus."

That is not to say that doctors no longer use antibiotics. "We don’t hesitate to use antibiotics if someone needs them. And, we do want to encourage parents to bring their child in to get checked, especially if there is a persistent high fever. Even if antibiotics are not warranted, we may be able to prescribe pain medication," she says.

Stress factors

Their lives may seem carefree on the surface, but children still experience stress. School and social situations can sometimes make them feel overwhelmed. And, even though they may not initiate a conversation about what’s bothering them, studies show that they want their parents to help them cope with their feelings.

If you notice that a child is upset or tense, say something, but don’t accuse the child or put them on the spot. "When parents see changes in their child’s behavior, they must address it," says Children’s Hospital of Wisconsin pediatric psychologist Kenneth L. Grizzle.

"It’s important to understand where a child’s stress is coming from," Grizzle says. He adds that stress may be a result of having too much to do. "If a kid is stressed out about school, make sure they are capable of meeting the expectations we place on them. The pressure to do well in academics, sports and other activities may get to be too much," he adds. On the other hand, some kids feel pressure from within, he says. "They put the pressure on themselves."

Look at the symptoms, Grizzle says. "It’s so important for parents to be willing to listen on the child’s terms," he says. Ask what is wrong and listen calmly with interest and patience. Avoid the urge to judge or lecture.

Sometimes children don’t feel like talking about what’s bothering them, so parents must respect that and still make it clear that they will be there to listen when the child feels like talking. "Especially with teens, you have to be willing to leave the situation alone until they are ready to talk," Grizzle says. However, if a child is withdrawn or losing interest in things they used to like, it could be a more serious situation, such as depression. "Maintaining a good relationship with your children is critical," he says.

Recognizing ADHD

All kids get fidgety from time to time. And, sometimes they have a tantrum. But when these things are the norm for your child, it could be a sign of attention deficit hyperactivity disorder, which can be a source of problems at school and at home.

ADHD is a developmental and behavioral disorder that affects 3 to 5 percent of all school-age children, according to statistics. "There are three major symptoms of ADHD, including inattention, impulsiveness and hyperactivity," says Dr. Kenneth Grizzle, Children’s Hospital of Wisconsin pediatric psychologist. "Kids often are unable to get started on a task, they are forgetful and poorly organized, but they will pay attention to things they like, such as video games, over homework," he says.

Although the media suggests a controversy around the over-diagnosis of ADHD, there is no such controversy in the scientific community, Grizzle says. "The rate of 3 to 5 percent of children holds pretty consistent across cultures and over the years," he says.

It is important to know that even though the exact cause of ADHD is not known, experts do know that there are changes in the brains of people with the condition. "It is not caused by home or school situations or by poor parenting," Grizzle stresses.

The first step in treating ADHD is not medication, says Grizzle. "First, work with the teacher and develop plans to work with the child. Also, speak to your pediatrician and get his or her opinion," he says. "Most parents have reservations about their children being on medication, but evidence shows that medication can be incredibly helpful when combined with behavioral intervention, and the side effects are relatively minor," he says. "Studies have shown that it is very difficult to parent a child who has ADHD and the parents’ skills improve considerably after the child receives treatment."

Weighty issue

The prevalence of overweight children age 6 to 11 more than doubled in the past 20 years, going from 7 percent in 1980 to about 19 percent in 2004, according to the U.S. Centers for Disease Control, while the rate among adolescents age 12 to 19 more than tripled, increasing from 5 to 17 percent. A number of factors have contributed to this alarming problem, says Dr. Ramin Alemzadeh, a pediatric endocrinologist and director of the children’s diabetic program at the Medical College of Wisconsin.

"Overweight is the result of eating too much and a lower activity level, but there is a significant genetic component to obesity, too," Alemzadeh says.

That is why the family — not just the child — must be a part of the treatment plan, says Dr. Brian Fidlin, program director of NEW (Nutrition, Exercise and Weight management) Kids Program at Children’s Hospital of Wisconsin. "Kids are referred to the program by their primary care physicians. A multidisciplinary team meets with the family to set up a plan to see what changes we can make," he says.

A large percentage of overweight young people are at risk for type 2 diabetes or heart disease because of high blood pressure or high cholesterol. "This is a very serious problem, and by the time we see someone with weight issues, it is often late in the game. The problem should have been addressed by modifying eating behavior years earlier. They must be very motivated," Alemzadeh stresses.

"Parents might not realize that some small changes early on can make a big difference. If anyone is worried about their child’s weight, the first thing I encourage them to do is to talk to their pediatrician," Fidlin says.

 


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