"Girls
Like Us: Carole King, Joni Mitchell, Carly Simon _-
and the Journey of a Generation" by Sheila
Weller; Atria ($27.95)
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A
triple biography can prove challenging for a writer
and her readers. But Sheila Weller's candid
"Girls Like Us" - about the lives and work
of Carly Simon, Carole King and Joni Mitchell - is
surprisingly stellar. Unlike far too many celebrity
bios, "Girls Like Us" never settles for
simple sensationalism.
Sure,
Weller gossips, but how could she not? She's dealing
with stars who were regaled for their romantic
entanglements with equally famous men, sometimes even
sharing the same one (James Taylor). They wrote
honestly about these encounters, and Weller would be
remiss to gloss over them.
But
Weller rises above innuendo to discuss the music,
including such interesting facts as Mitchell's
childhood bout with polio, which affected the way she
plays guitar, a factor that pushed her work closer to
jazz than folk.
Even
better, Weller insightfully places these trailblazers
into their proper context during one of the most
turbulent times in U.S. history: the late '60s and
early '70s.
These
women, all born in the 1940s, spoke directly to, and
influenced the behavior of, a generation of women (and
some men, of course) who were in search of empowering
figureheads they could recognize and seek comfort in.
"Carole
King's, Joni Mitchell's, and Carly Simon's songs were
born of and were narrating that transition - a course
of self-discovery, change, and unhappy confrontation
with the "limits" of change, which they, and
their female listeners, had been riding."
No one
at Simon's label wanted "That's the Way I've
Always Heard It Should Be" to become her first
single, Weller writes. With such emotionally
complicated lyrics - "You say we'll soar like two
birds through the clouds / But soon you'll cage me on
your shelf / I'll never learn to be just me first / By
myself" - and coming just months after such
simple tunes as "Venus," "ABC" and
"War" topped the charts, Simon's song had a
ridiculously long title. Worse, Elektra Records
staffers feared that its content was "too complex
... too stuffed with emotional activity - the parents'
bad marriage; the friends' unhappy lives; the
boyfriend's enthusiasm for marriage but controlling
nature; the woman's initial resistance and ultimate
capitulation - to be released as a single."
"ABC
/ Easy as 123" this was decidedly not.
But
Simon's groundbreaking song mirrored the times, Weller
notes. The average age of first marriage for American
women had been rising a little every year since 1965.
(It's about 26 now, almost six years older than it was
then.) "Men had long quipped that marriage
overdomesticated them; now women did," Weller
writes.
Such
was the fertile territory for the unconventional tune
to take root. "That's the Way I've Always Heard
It Should Be" confounded the skeptics (male
executives, naturally) and soared into the Top 10 that
summer.
Also
upending convention were King and her husband Gerry
Goffin who, in late 1960, when "good girls"
were waxing over a "blue moon," snuck onto
the airwaves a ballad in which a young woman declared
herself a sexual and responsible being. "Is this
a lasting treasure / Or just a moment's pleasure / Can
I believe the magic of your sighs / Will you still
love me tomorrow?" Good timing, too: The pill had
been approved for contraceptive use in the United
States that same year.
Meanwhile,
a young Mitchell, "frightened by the devil / and
drawn to those ones that ain't afraid," as she'd
write a decade later about breaking up with a famous
rock star boyfriend, had her own secret that she would
cryptically lace into her lyrics in songs like
"Little Green" and "River" for
decades. At 21, in her native Canada, she had given up
for adoption a daughter born out of wedlock.
Weller's
format alternates chapters on each singer
chronologically. Structurally, though there are links,
you can read about one artist in full and then go on
to the others.
Of the
three, only Simon consented to be interviewed by the
author. The notoriously prickly Mitchell didn't want
to share space with her two contemporaries, and King
wants to write her autobiography. But Weller hasn't
turned in a clip job of previously printed stories.
Instead, she secured interviews with music industry
veterans who worked with these women, plus family
members, ex-husbands, co-songwriters and close
friends.
Weller
is caught in a couple inaccuracies. Coconut Grove, a
magnet for Mitchell in 1968, is not "an arty
section of Miami Beach." She also writes that
King's "Now and Forever" shares the same
title with an earlier anthem Simon wrote titled
"Tonight and Forever."
Those
aside, any writers planning to write a celebrity bio
should follow Weller's lead. With skill and smarts,
she shows us all the right things to do.