Finding an
exercise partner to share your sweat can be a huge motivator.
"You need somebody consistent — somebody you can trust to
be there," says Kerri Krasnow, a certified athletic trainer
in Newport News, Va. Her tips:
Look for
someone on a similar exercise program. If you’re both into
weight training or riding stationary bikes, it shouldn’t
matter if you can’t lift as many pounds or pedal as quickly as
your partner. You can still spot and motivate each other.
A friendly
competitor is good. … Make a bet that whoever goes to the gym
less often has to pay for a lunch date.
… but an
aggressive one isn’t. An ultra-competitive partner who pushes
— or shames — you into a workout you’re not ready for will
increase your injury risk. You should be able to speak up if an
exercise feels like too much. Type-A personalities also tend to
do best together.
Pick
someone you can look bad in front of. You’re going to be
sweaty, tired and likely stinky. An opposite-sex partner is fine
unless you’re worrying about how your hair looks.
Match
schedules. Some people do better exercising in the morning and
some at night, while others can only grab time on lunch breaks.
Be honest upfront.
Go for a
somewhat adventurous person. You don’t want to jump on every
exercise fad, but a buddy should be occasionally up for trying
new routines.
Don’t
limit yourself to people you already know. Post a flyer at your
gym, ask the front desk staff if they know of potential partners
or approach someone you regularly see there. Friends, co-workers
and neighbors also may have ideas.
Look
beyond the gym. Walks with neighbors or co-workers are great
exercise, too.
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