BRADENTON, Fla. —
Norma K. Collins and her family have had their share of breast
cancer scares.
The disease reached her niece, BethAnn. It
also took hold of her grandmother, Bertha. Then there was
Collins' mom, Mary, who was diagnosed at the age of 80.
The silver lining in their stories is that
they all survived.
In honor of Breast Cancer Awareness Month in
October, the Collins' family — a big supporter of cancer
research — has decided to celebrate the month in a most
unusual way.
They decorated bras.
Some are covered with buttons and bows,
others with stamps, shells and one with spray paint. The bras
come as far as Indiana, California and Illinois, where Collins
family members reside.
"It was a fun thing for a good
cause," said Norma Collins, 65, who lives in Palmetto.
The bras and others undergarments grace
Village of the Arts' Bonni Bakes as part of the shops'
month-long "Artsy Undies Show." Proceeds made from
the show's entry fees benefit the American Cancer Society.
When Collins told her family about the art
show, it turned into a family affair. Or rather, a competition
to create the best work of art, Collins said.
Collectively, Collins, her five grown
daughters and their children created 14 bras. They were
donated by Your Best Friends' Closet, a clothing boutique in
Algonquin, Ill, where one of Collins' daughters lives.
"Our family has an interest in breast
cancer awareness and support research because it has affected
our family as well as families around us in our
communities."
This year, there have been 192,370 new cases
of invasive breast cancer in the United States, according to
the American Cancer Society. There have also been 40,170
deaths from the disease in 2009.
Breast cancer is the most common cancer in
American women, and is the second leading cause of death for
women after lung cancer.
Despite the haunting numbers, the U.S.
boasts more than 2.5 million breast cancer survivors.
In Collins' family, the disease hit her
paternal grandmother, Ethel, first. She had both breasts
removed.
Her other grandmother, Bertha, had one
breast removed when a lump was discovered.
Both woman later died of natural causes,
Collins said.
Collins' 94-year-old mother, Mary, had a
slow-growing non-malignant tumor that turned malignant after
it reached a certain size.
Not one to visit the doctor for yearly
gynecological exams, she was diagnosed after a doctor's visit
for a sinus infection.
Before then, she thought the lump was a
bone.
Shaken by the word cancer, Collins' mother
decided to have her breasts removed — lump and all. She
didn't want chemotherapy at her age.
"She went back two years later for a
checkup and that's the end of that," Collins said
matter-of-factly. "She's never gone back for a check up.
Her attitude is: 'I've lived long enough. If I have it I don't
want to know it. If I die from it I'm ready to go.' "
The bras Collins' family decorated in honor
of family members includes friends who have been diagnosed
with the disease as well.
When you start to look around, Collins said,
breast cancer has hit everywhere.
The American Cancer Society says that women
have a 1-in-8 chance of developing invasive breast cancer —
when cancer grows beyond where it started — in their
lifetime; the odds of dying from breast cancer is about
1-in-35. But the organization also states that the rate of
deaths has dropped in part to better treatment and awareness.
Because of Collins' family history, she has
visited the doctor for yearly diagnostic monograms for the
past 20 years.
"It's worrisome," she said.
"It's like something's lurking there. But I feel
confident with the care that I'm getting that if anything
happens they'll find it."
With that statement, Collins knocked on
wood.
She's been lucky so far.
"I wouldn't hesitant in a minute to
have both removed," she said. "I mean, it's
life."
What's scarier is the threat of seeing her
daughters go through it. A lump was detected in oldest
daughter, Debra, 48, when she was a teenager. It turned out to
be a fibroid tumor.
With breast cancer lurking in the family,
Collins made sure her two granddaughters — Kelsea, 10, and
Skylar, 8 — are aware of the risks.
She talked to them about it while decorating
the bras. It's important that they know, Collins said.
Their other grandmother died 12 years ago
from breast cancer.
"Even though they're little girls, they
can understand the concept of what women face," she said.
And the fact that there is hope.
"So many people are mobilized and on
board for finding a cure that I don't think of cancer as a
curse," said Collins' daughter, Patty Lloyd, 36, who
decorated one of the bras at her Illinois home. "There's
just a lot of hope right now."
Collins believes that women are wiser when
it comes to cancer risks — visiting the doctor for yearly
mammograms and conducting self-exams.
"They're on the lookout," she
said. "I think that it's a lot more hopeful than it used
to be but (cancer) still isn't a pretty word. I think it's a
scary fighting word. It has nothing to do with losing hair, it
has to do with life."