POMPANO BEACH, Fla.
— When death came calling 18 months ago, Val Lucier put it
in its place.
Tears filled the 74-year-old's brown eyes as
he described his online research of Paget's Breast Nipple
Cancer, a rare form of the disease.
"When something pops out and starts
leaking, you 'discover' it," Lucier said of the green
liquid resembling anti-freeze that oozed from his right
nipple.
The American Cancer Society estimates that
1,910 men will be diagnosed with breast cancer this year.
Lucier said he wants to share his story because he wants men
to know that they are not immune.
"It's not about men or women," he
said, "it's about breasts. If something looks odd,
challenge it."
Lucier is in famous company with his
campaign: both Peter Criss, a drummer with the rock band KISS,
and actor Richard Roundtree, who gained fame starring in the
1970s "Shaft" movies, have given interviews about
fighting the disease.
"There is no stigma," said Lucier,
a retired strategic planner, U.S. Air Force veteran and writer
on condo and homeowner association issues. "You're not a
sissy."
A month before seeing a doctor, he noticed
his breast had developed a horizontal crease and itched around
the areola. It would be three more days before it was
confirmed. But he knew. And though he shares everything with
Doris, his wife of 53 years, he kept the news of his new
adversary to himself.
"When your family knows, they pat you
on the back and say, 'It's OK,'" Lucier said. "But
at the end of three days, I told death, 'I ain't ready for
you. And when I am, that's when we'll talk.'"
Though the diagnosis shocked her, Doris
Lucier forgave her husband for not sharing his burden right
away. After all, he helped her survive a year battling colon
cancer in 1990.
"When you get cancer you're on a
journey by yourself and have to face it every day, even if
you're cured," Doris Lucier said. "I suspected
something was wrong because he was spending a lot of time on
the patio, looking into the distance."
Val Lucier's risk factors included his age
and family history: his mother had a double mastectomy. But he
wasn't obese. And although he enjoyed three cigars a week
prior to his diagnosis, he said he didn't inhale and only
burned them outdoors.
He decided to figuratively put his opponent
"away in a drawer" and stayed focused on the
procedures as they came — 12 in all — that removed his
diseased breast with its Stage IIIb cancer and 22 lymph nodes.
After 135 appointments that included
chemotherapy and radiation, he'll be more than happy to never
see another doctor. And after enduring hair loss, fatigue,
sometime numbness in his right arm where the lymph nodes were
removed and fuzzy "chemo brain," Lucier said he's
totally cured.
He is in the midst of a five-year estrogen
inhibitor regimen that many female breast cancer survivors
also follow.
Lucier said there is a 38 percent chance
cancer could return by 2013. Over the next decade, there is a
52 percent chance of recurrence.
About his unrelenting adversary, death? It's
still in that drawer, put away for another day.
"You've only got the present,"
said Lucier, who power washed his roof last month. It took him
six days, two hours at a time. But, he said, "It's a
great feeling I get, doing the little things.
"This guy is alive."