Family Corner gives families 
a chance to heal

By DAVE RANK - GM Today Staff 

May 27, 2009


Program coordinator Linda White relaxes in the "great room" at The Youth & Family Project Inc. Tuesday afternoon in West Bend.


WEST BEND - For the first time, Washington County has its own site where divided families can begin to reunite.

With the support of several area agencies, The Youth & Family Project Inc. now hosts the Family Corner - Supervised Visitation and Exchange Services program, where parents and children split by court order can have supervised visitation time or exchange custody locally in a safe and home-like environment, said Linda White, program coordinator for Youth & Family Project, 630 Elm St. in West Bend.

Supervised visitations or exchanges are used by the court system and the county’s Human Services Department to assure that a child can have safe contact with a noncustodial person or parent without direct involvement in adult conflicts or other problems, said Lisa Krenke, executive director of Friends of Abused Families Inc.

"Ultimately these tools can protect children and possibly strengthen family units as they go through a crisis, transitional or re-unification period," she said.

The Family Corner program started Feb. 1. Until then, county families divided by court order because of a contention divorce, domestic abuse, neglect or prison sentences had to travel to Fond du Lac or Waukesha facilities for such supervised visitations, Krenke said.

Those visits cost about $35 an hour, Krenke said. The Family Corner is a free service.

"It was quite costly for a family to go to Fond du Lac or Waukesha," she said. "There is no cost for the Family Corner. We received funding from several organizations. So it is free for families in Washington County."

It costs about $50,000 a year to operate the Family Cor-ner, Krenke said. "We have raised enough money to get us through two years."

Friends of Abused Families, which provides crisis intervention and prevention education services on domestic violence and sexual assault, helped develop the Family Corner program, along with the Youth & Family Pro-ject, Washington County Human Servi-ces Department and the Washington County Family Court Commis-sioner.

Trained staff provided by the Youth & Family Project and parent aides from the Human Services Department "ensure safe contact between parent and child who have been ordered by the court system to have supervised visitation time in efforts to protect the child, model parenting and discipline methods, and rebuild the family unit," White explained.

Last year, 40 family from the county had to travel to Fond du Lac or Waukesha for supervised visits or custodial exchanges, Krenke said. "We anticipate that number will rise. One reason the courts did not order more supervised visits was because there was no place in Washington County where families could have supervised visitation or exchanges."

So far, the Family Corner has had five scheduled visitations and the Youth & Family Project is working on scheduling two more referrals, White said. "For the beginning of the program, we’re moving along quite well, actually. I think it’s going great."

Funding for this program was donated by The Faye McBeath Foundation, The Zeigler Family Fund, The Prescott Family Foundation, Community Memorial Hospital, West Bend Mutual Insurance Company Charitable Fund, United Way of Washington County, The Youth & Family Project, Washington County Human Services Department and Friends of Abused Families.

The Youth and Family Project, Inc., founded in 1975, is a private, nonprofit agency with offices in Washington and Ozaukee counties. It provides support, education and counseling services aimed at reuniting a family divided by crisis and enriching family relationships. www.youthandfamilyproject.org.

Youth & Family Project building has long history

The building at 630 Elm St. in West Bend the Youth & Family Project Inc. bought and moved into last year has been on the corner of North Seventh Avenue for more than a century.

The three-story structure was originally built in 1896 as the rectory for the Holy Angels Catholic Parish, which is a block to the west, said Beryl Tofte, operations manager for the Youth & Family Project. It is 5,500 square feet in size.

In about 1914, the rectory was sold to Columbia Hospital, which converted the home into a Diabetic Santarium.

Several years later, it was sold to the Schultz family, who in-stalled the stone exterior to the wood-frame facility. In the 1970s it was sold to the Terlinden family.

For many decades, the house was used as an rental property, with individual two-bedroom apartments on both the first and second floors, a lower-level studio apartment, and the third floor used as a three-unit boarding house with a common area for the room tenants.

Following some repairs and remodeling done by Habitat for Humanity of Washington County, the Youth & Family Project now uses the first and second floors for its offices and programs, while the lower-level studio apartment and rental rooms on the third floor continue as housing for assigned tenants, Tofte said.


This story appeared in The Daily News on May 27, 2009.