Separation spells anxiety 
for the dog AND you

January 16, 2010


Holiday vacations are fast becoming a memory, and the family dog might feel a touch of separation anxiety creeping in.

After spending days and days at home, spoiling the dog and cat with treats and affection, we're back to the usual ritual: up early, out the door and headed for work.

Maybe like me, you've come home from a long day at work to find the house a bit upturned.

Yesterday (my first full day back at work in a bit), yielded a treasure of tidbits scattered about the house: I opened the door to see Lily, my "middle" cat streak by with tissue streaming from her jaws. Gotcha!

If you are struggling with a pet's anxiety, take a few simple steps to curb their fear:

Dust off the dog crate. Dogs often benefit a safe haven, and you need some peace of mind. The crate, which is not a device for punishment, helps owners reset alpha roles and at the same time provides safe respite for the animal. This is also a good tip for a dog that is showing aggressive tendencies with toys or if you share a bed.

Chew toys: Invest in some hardy distractions like a jumbo Kong. Stuff it with peanut butter and kibble. The dog will spend a lot of its initial anxiety when you leave (or go to bed) by trying to lick out the treats. Do not, however, leave a dog unattended with rawhide chews, as they can pose a serious choke hazard. Nylabones are durable and should be given to dogs that don't chew and gulp in big bites.

Goodbye exercise: Trainers recommend an exercise of quiet homecomings.

The goal is to leave the house and return with little fanfare in increments of 2, 5, 8, 10, and 15 minutes, and so on.

Do NOT greet the dog. Enter the house, spend some time doing whatever, and then leave again.

Come back in 5 minutes. Repeat. Leave for 8 minutes, etc.

This process tells the dog, hey, I'm back ... and I'll keep coming back.

Exercise: Remember, a tired dog (or cat) is more likely to sleep while you're gone. Walk the dog before you leave. Run the cat with help from an interactive toy. Give the dog a reliable chew toy, pat them on the head, tell them you're going to work, and then scat. Eventually, the ritual should set in.

Don't forget about the crate. Use it for highly anxious pets that need a safe place to spend eight or nine hours. You'll appreciate a tidy, unchewed home, and your dog (and you) will be calmer in the long run.

 


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