Patricia ‘Pat’ Bandkowski
Oct. 17, 1952 — Feb. 4, 2016

With deep sadness, our beloved Patricia “Pat” Bandkowski passed away on Feb. 4, 2016.

Pat was born Oct. 17, 1952. She was a loving mother and wife. Pat’s pride and joy were her two daughters and three grandchildren. She took care of her daughter Sherrie, who is handicapped, for 45 years. Pat had a genuine loving soul and was a best friend to many, especially her daughter Jamie. She was also wonderful wife to John. Pat was a foster mom for 18 years, taking care of 11-plus foster kids, ending her foster care in 1998. John and Pat owned and operated Hogg Alley for 14 years. She also worked at Shorehaven and Amron Corp. Her family is grieving tremendously with her loss. Pat’s love for her family and our memories of her will be forever dear in our hearts.

Pat is survived by her loving husband, John Bandkowski, of 17 years; her children, whom adored her, Sherrie Grant and Jamie (husband Derek) Ingle of Oconomowoc; her grandchildren, Tyler, Brady and Conner; siblings Jim Stocks, David Stocks, Sharon Meyers, Valerie Sheehan, Gary Stocks, Candy Meyer, Bruce Stocks and Donna Kuzba; 30 nieces and nephews; and two stepsons, Luke and Mike Bandkowski; along with many other relatives and friends.

She was preceded in death by her parents, Donald Stocks and Glenda Noland; ex-husband, Leslie Lovelien; brother Doug Stocks; grandson Corey Ingle; mother- and father-in-law, Lorraine and Hank Bandkowski; brother-in-law Marvin Lovelien; nephew Joel Lovelien; and mother- and father-in-law Adolph Lovelien and Katherine SpringMyer.

Services for Pat were held on Wednesday, February 10, at Pagenkopf Funeral Home. Burial to follow at Delafield City Cemetery.

Pagenkopf Funeral Home is serving the family. For more information, call 262-567-4457 or visit