It’s a rare thing, to encounter a personality who is so
captivating, so inspiring, that he can command the screen for 90
minutes, deserving of an intimate big-screen profile.
Yet that’s precisely what is on display in the moving
"Praying with Lior," a survey of Lior Liebling, a
child living with Down syndrome, and the way he has led a family
and a community to rally around him, emerging to those who know
him as something of a "spiritual genius."
The son of two rabbis - Mordechai, a rather demanding father,
and Devorah, who died in 1997 when Lior was just 6 years old -
this boy seems to have a bottomless enthusiasm for church and
prayer, not to mention a self-processed regular dialogue with
God. More than that: He’s a bubbly, cheerful person, whose
energy and happiness seems to rub off on everyone he meets, and
the movie seems to be following on the heels of numerous
newspaper articles that have taken note of his religious verve.
In school, he helps to lead prayers and earns the admiration of
his classmates. In home movies, we even see Lior as an infant
and toddler trying to sing along with his mother as she leads
group prayers in song.
Purely in religious terms, Lior’s story is a moving one,
based in a resolute belief in a higher power and an understated
eloquence with which he shares that conviction. Yet it’s his
age that takes us aback. As laid out by director Ilana Trachtman,
"Praying with Lior" builds up to the day of his bar
mitzvah, and when the celebration finally arrives, it’s a
jarring reminder of just how young this wise old spirit actually
is.
In the film’s single most emotional moment, Lior and his
father visit his mother’s grave, and not only does Lior prove
unable to contain his emotions, but he reaches out to his stoic
father, who breaks down as well. For a fleeting instant, it’s
hard to tell who’s leaning on whose shoulder, and there is
something about Lior - something so unassuming, expressive and
accepting - that allows those around him to lower their guard.
As the action shifts to his big day - that of his bar mitzvah
- it’s not just about the youngster behind the microphone but
about the hundreds upon hundreds who have gathered to celebrate
his first steps into adulthood. It is here where we witness Lior’s
triumph - not just able to keep pace despite the challenges of
Down syndrome, standing tall as the spark that has set this
community aglow.
As we see his jubilant taking of the stage, welcomed by
smiles, cheers and, in the case of his family, tears of joy,
"Praying with Lior" does more than just offer us a
portrait of a special young man. It cuts through the clichés
and the condescension of so many mainstream religious films to
help us see the true power of faith put into action, of how love
can build upon love and redefine our realities.